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Hi Maya, very good question 😉
The answer depends on how you feel when you defend/try to prove yourself compared to deciding to walk away.
I also used to feel the need to defend, but it never felt good. You feel it deep inside, deep down you know that you should not have to prove yourself to anyone, right?
Also like you said, it can end up in an argument because the other person also feels like defending their point of view, and it just keeps going.
My advice to you as always is to go with whatever feels better to you at the time, depending on the subject, how you are feeling at the time, the situation etc
I personally don’t have the desire to explain myself to anyone any more and i try to avoid it as much as possible. But my confidence has also increased so im not as concerned about their point of view.
The higher your confidence and self esteem, the less time you give to anyones opinion of you. And you also know that you have done the right thing anyway, so whether this person knows it or not, it doesn’t matter right? i believe as long as you do the right thing and know it in your heart, you don’t need to explain yourself 🙂
What do you think?
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You create your own reality
Your question is quite common actually, as people who are starting to learn that their thoughts create their reality wonder what thoughts lead to a illness. What ive explained in both my book The Alchemy of Healing and also in various posts such as How to heal your body is that its much more effective for you to raise your level of happiness in order to heal, instead of looking for thoughts that lead to the illness.
Its too difficult to go back in time and analyse millions of thoughts that could have been responsible for your illness. You will heal a lot quicker if you just focus on getting happier today, as your body knows how to self-heal, but can only self-heal if you are in a good emotional state.
Your body is telling you it is suffering in your negative emotional state, our bodies break down when we are not well emotionally
I hope this clarifies, have a read through my website and let me know any questions you may still have 🙂
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thank you for your suggestion. You have inspired me to start one 🙂
I’ve been very busy with life and must admit I’m way behind on posting new articles.
Hopefully once things have settled down I will start a newsletter 🙂
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Hasina, is this the very first focus wheel you are attempting?
I would suggest you pick a specific desire and focus wheel that into a better place rather that a very broad statement such as ‘best version of my self in everyway’. For example, pick just one area, like your health or finances or relationships.
Thats wonderful news Greg, i love hearing from people who have discovered their own ability to heal. Keep us posted on your journey!
Thea, that is wonderful news! Thank you for sharing your story and I’m looking forward to hearing more good news from you in the future 🙂
Have a lovely Christmas!
Your body is not able to heal until you heal emotionally. So do whatever it takes to make yourself feel happy.
Did you study the resources I mentioned on this website?