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Hi Maya, very good question 😉
The answer depends on how you feel when you defend/try to prove yourself compared to deciding to walk away.
I also used to feel the need to defend, but it never felt good. You feel it deep inside, deep down you know that you should not have to prove yourself to anyone, right?
Also like you said, it can end up in an argument because the other person also feels like defending their point of view, and it just keeps going.
My advice to you as always is to go with whatever feels better to you at the time, depending on the subject, how you are feeling at the time, the situation etc
I personally don’t have the desire to explain myself to anyone any more and i try to avoid it as much as possible. But my confidence has also increased so im not as concerned about their point of view.
The higher your confidence and self esteem, the less time you give to anyones opinion of you. And you also know that you have done the right thing anyway, so whether this person knows it or not, it doesn’t matter right? i believe as long as you do the right thing and know it in your heart, you don’t need to explain yourself 🙂
What do you think?
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You create your own reality
Your question is quite common actually, as people who are starting to learn that their thoughts create their reality wonder what thoughts lead to a illness. What ive explained in both my book The Alchemy of Healing and also in various posts such as How to heal your body is that its much more effective for you to raise your level of happiness in order to heal, instead of looking for thoughts that lead to the illness.
Its too difficult to go back in time and analyse millions of thoughts that could have been responsible for your illness. You will heal a lot quicker if you just focus on getting happier today, as your body knows how to self-heal, but can only self-heal if you are in a good emotional state.
Your body is telling you it is suffering in your negative emotional state, our bodies break down when we are not well emotionally
I hope this clarifies, have a read through my website and let me know any questions you may still have 🙂
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Jan you need to heal the underlying misaligned energies that caused the illness, I talk about how i did it in the book the Alchemy of Healing. https://alchemyofhealing.com/the-alchemy-of-healing-book/
Hello Jan, which book? if you mean the Alchemy of Healing, you can buy the eBook on this website or you can buy the printed copy through a number of retailers, here is more information: https://alchemyofhealing.com/the-alchemy-of-healing-book/
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Thanks Mascot, i really appreciate your thoughts and feedback 🙂
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You sound very strong and capable, it seems you are going in the right direction by paying attention to how you feel and wanting to feel good.
I am so happy that my book has helped you!
I don’t think you can ignore bad feelings. Remember that you feel bad because of bad thoughts, and you can’t “ignore bad thoughts”, you can only think better feeling thoughts. Have you tried replacing these bad feeling thoughts with better ones?
The fear is also related to your thoughts. If you can’t replace the bad thoughts, try to turn your attention and focus to subjects that feel better for you. Try to spend more time in nature or with animals or with kids. They have good energy and when we feel bad, they have the power to uplift us.
Of course you hold all the power to uplift yourself, but sometimes you forget how powerful you are.
Your anxiety will disappear as you start to feel better. Try to love yourself more and be good to yourself. I think we all need to get better at loving our inner child and giving it what it what we did not get as children.
You are very powerful F.W! Remember that! You have manifested this book into your experience and in the same way you can manifest anything else your heart desires!
Mary Beth, you sound like a breath of fresh air! It’s so good to see people take their power back 🙂
Let me know how you go!