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Hi Maya, very good question 😉
The answer depends on how you feel when you defend/try to prove yourself compared to deciding to walk away.
I also used to feel the need to defend, but it never felt good. You feel it deep inside, deep down you know that you should not have to prove yourself to anyone, right?
Also like you said, it can end up in an argument because the other person also feels like defending their point of view, and it just keeps going.
My advice to you as always is to go with whatever feels better to you at the time, depending on the subject, how you are feeling at the time, the situation etc
I personally don’t have the desire to explain myself to anyone any more and i try to avoid it as much as possible. But my confidence has also increased so im not as concerned about their point of view.
The higher your confidence and self esteem, the less time you give to anyones opinion of you. And you also know that you have done the right thing anyway, so whether this person knows it or not, it doesn’t matter right? i believe as long as you do the right thing and know it in your heart, you don’t need to explain yourself 🙂
What do you think?
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You create your own reality
Your question is quite common actually, as people who are starting to learn that their thoughts create their reality wonder what thoughts lead to a illness. What ive explained in both my book The Alchemy of Healing and also in various posts such as How to heal your body is that its much more effective for you to raise your level of happiness in order to heal, instead of looking for thoughts that lead to the illness.
Its too difficult to go back in time and analyse millions of thoughts that could have been responsible for your illness. You will heal a lot quicker if you just focus on getting happier today, as your body knows how to self-heal, but can only self-heal if you are in a good emotional state.
Your body is telling you it is suffering in your negative emotional state, our bodies break down when we are not well emotionally
I hope this clarifies, have a read through my website and let me know any questions you may still have 🙂
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Thanks for your feedback Donna!
Actually a few people have asked for this so perhaps its time I look into get?! I do have a day job so sometimes it’s hard to get time 🙂
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Hi Miracle, it could very well be a chemical imbalance in the body. However all these physical problems originate from a emotional imbalance, that’s usually the source of it. So while you want to balance the physical chemicals, you really need to balance the emotional. An emotionally unstable body will naturally produce incorrect chemicals. Does that make sense?
That’s wonderful news Jocelyn! Well done!
I’m so happy my book has inspired you! I would suggest you don’t try to take someone else on that journey, it’s impossible to change someone else’s reality. You can only be a positive light and hope that they too are inspired in that direction. Of course however, they may not be interested and that’s fine 🙂
The thing to point out is that you have attracted this person’s negativity because of what you were feeling in the past, and as you been to turn a new page, there will be changes around you. Either the law of attraction will move you away from this person, or you’ll see that this person only shows you their positive side! Actually the possibilities are endless, and im sure you’ll be very surprised a year from now as you look back.
Just don’t try to influence anyone, it will back fire and you will lose your own Mojo. The majority of my friends and contacts don’t know about my book and beliefs, and that’s okay! I always wanted it to be attracted by those ready for it. And that’s how you find your people, or your tribe as they call it these days!
Please keep me posted on your progress!